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Mom’s Note to Disrespectful Son Goes Viral

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Parenting a cocky, disrespectful teenager is no easy feat, and parents employ various methods to encourage better behavior in their children.

One mother, Heidi Johnson, decided to write a handwritten letter to her son, Aaron, and shared it on Facebook. Although she didn’t intend for the post to go viral or even to make it public, it ended up reaching a wide audience. Despite this, she has no regrets about sharing it.

In her letter to her 13-year-old son, Johnson reprimanded him for treating her like a “roommate.” She included an itemized bill for rent, food, and other expenses totaling over $700, stating that if he insisted on treating her like a roommate, she would do the same.

She signed the note, “Love, Mom,” emphasizing her affection for her son. She later followed up with another post to provide context and to address criticism from other parents. Johnson reassured them, “I am not going to put my 13-year-old on the street if he can’t pay his half of the rent. I am not wanting him to pay anything. I want him to take pride in his home, his space, and appreciate the gifts and blessings we have.”

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Johnson clarified that the bill was never meant to be paid but was intended to help Aaron understand the cost of living and to foster gratitude and respect. She explained that the note was a lesson in what life would be like if she were merely a “roommate” rather than a parent.

The note stemmed from an incident where Aaron lied about completing his homework. When she threatened to restrict his internet access, he retorted, “Well, I am making money now.” The money he referred to was a small income from his YouTube channel, insufficient to cover his living expenses.

The public letter did not harm Johnson’s relationship with her son. She noted, “He and I still talk as openly as ever. He has apologized multiple times.”

Since posting the letter, Johnson has become a confidant for other parents seeking advice. She told TODAY, “My post seems to have opened a door, and people feel safe coming to me and asking for advice, venting, or even just having someone bear witness to their experience by listening and opening up and sharing a piece of myself in return.”

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